He shall rule over you
To the woman he said... your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you. Part of a four-item list of consequences after the fall. Three of the four, Christians read as brokenness the gospel pushes against. The fourth gets read as design.
Genesis 3:14–19 names four consequences after the fall: the serpent condemned to crawl (v. 14), the woman given pain in childbirth and rule by her husband (v. 16), the ground cursed to grow thorns and thistles (v. 17–18), and death as the destination of all flesh (v. 19). Christian practice treats three of the four as brokenness the gospel is pushing against. Epidurals are uncontroversial. Weed killer is uncontroversial. The resurrection hope is the central claim of the faith. Only the fourth consequence — he shall rule over you — gets routinely read as divine design rather than diagnosis. The grammar of the passage gives no warrant for that selective reading; all four consequences are given in the same form, in the same breath, as the same kind of speech.